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Norms: "a pattern regarded as typical." I think we allow this definition to dictate our general reactions to life and/or daily events; i.e. our expectations and responses based on what we feel "should be" typical in a given situation. We expect everyone to stop at a red light...so when ours is green, we respond by assuming we have the right-of-way which sometimes doesn't work out well. I'm reminded of the common denominator of overall non-typical humanity when visiting Walmart. I've routinely said, if you want to see how a local population drives in any given town, go to the local Walmart and watch how they maneuver their carts around the store. The same non-attentive, unaware of their surroundings, cutting people off, coming out of aisles without looking for cross-traffic, obliviousness in general are the same characteristics they display when they return to their cars in the parking lot. And we share the road with them expecting them to abide by societal "norms." It's a dangerous world out there and people who are determined to go against norms are going to find a way to do it. Head on a swivel people...and always have an exit strategy!

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